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One Monticello Life-Miss Drew County 2010, Toni Findley

September 26th, 2010 by

“My mom taught me, if you want anything, you have to do it yourself.”

Raised by single mother, Rhonda Findley, Toni Findley learned early in life what it meant to work hard for what you want, and to lean on those closest to you. Her childhood years shaped a strong passion to help single parents, and to always believe in second chances for others.

Toni attended McGehee schools until her family moved to Monticello right before her sixth-grade year. School was not easy for Toni. She suffered from ADHD and said the problems that came with the condition made everything difficult, from schoolwork to making friends.

Toni & her mom, Rhonda Findley, at the Miss Drew County Pageant

“I was very impulsive, blunt, and I couldn’t wait my turn for anything. It made things really difficult. I was also a perfectionist so if I couldn’t do something the perfect way, I just wouldn’t try to do it at all. I’d rather give nothing than only do it half-way.”

By high school, things began to turn around. Due to wonderful teachers and support, she found ways that she could gain more focus.

“They really cared, and they wanted me to succeed. They quickly figured out that they had about 15 minutes of focus from me, and then from there they helped me learn ways to keep my focus on what I was supposed to be doing.”

Dance, a strong passion of Toni’s, helped her learn more self-control and discipline. She began dancing at the age of 3 and with the financial support of her grandparents, she was able to compete in competitions and keep up with the other children.

“Dance is a way that I can express every emotion I feel. I can turn on music and just let go. It’s just me and the music.”

Dance wasn’t the only past time during Toni’s high school years. She was a cheerleader for 3 years, a member of the National Beta Club and National Honor Society. She was a member of the French Club and was also selected to be on the Homecoming Court. She was, and still is, a member of Immanuel Baptist Church.

As Toni got older, Laura McNeese, from Monticello High School, became a second mother to her.

Toni, with Jaden Young and Paisley Palsa, at MHS Homecoming

“My mom always had to work a lot to provide for us. She was willing to do whatever it took to make sure we had what we needed. She might leave for work at 6 in the morning and not get home until 6 or later in the evening. Laura took over the other “mom” roles by taking pictures at my events and always making sure someone was there just for me. She’s the one that really encouraged me to do the Miss Drew County Pageant.”

When Mrs. McNeese approached Toni about the idea of competing in the pageant, Toni’s reaction was, “Sure! Why not? I’ve got nothing to lose!”

Miss Drew County was the first pageant that Toni had ever competed in. She was stunned when she came out the winner and thrilled to receive the scholarship money to help continue her education at her current college, UAM. The scholarship will pay for a 12 hour year, towards the next school year.

Currently in her Junior year, Toni plans to double major in social work and psychology, with a minor in criminal justice. She says she knows her career plan may shock some, but she wants to be a therapist in correctional units.

“I mainly want to help the offenders, but I also want to work with their families. When someone is put in prison it affects a lot more people than just the offender. I hope they would understand that I didn’t see myself as better than them, and I want them to know that I’m not judging them.”

With her soft heart for people, she very much wishes that she could help have an impact with death row inmates.

“I wouldn’t be allowed to share my faith with them unless they asked… but, if they did ask, I would love the opportunity to share Christianity with them before they die.”

Currently, Toni works two jobs. She has been a dance instructor at Monticello Dance Academy for 3 years, and has been with the Monticello Country Club for 4 years. She loves teaching the young girls dance, and says that they inspire her to do better, for their sake.

“I know they watch me, and just like winning the pageant, I want to show them that you really can do anything you put your mind to. I also want them to see that even with hard times, I’m still happy. Life isn’t worth living if you can’t find happiness.”

Toni was asked to finish each sentence:

1. In 5 years, I’d really like to…

“have my degree and masters, so I can start new goals. I don’t like to make too many goals at once, so that’s my main one right now.”

2. If I could change the world in one way I would…

“make sure that everyone had equal opportunities. No matter if you were born into a family that had everything, or nothing, you had the same chances to succeed.”

3. My biggest passion in life right now is…

“helping people.”

4. Nothing can make me laugh like…

“That’s a hard one, because I laugh at everything!”

5. When people think of me, I hope they think…

“that I’m strong and independent.”c

FAVORITES

Food – Spaghetti

Restaurant – Olive Garden

TV Show – Songs of Anarchy; Grey’s Anatomy

Movie – A Time to Kill

Actor/Actress – Matthew McConaughey/ Sandra Bulloch

Book – Twilight

For Fun – Go out to eat; hang out with family and friends

6 Responses to “One Monticello Life-Miss Drew County 2010, Toni Findley”

  1. Laura McNeese says:

    Toni, you are a wonderful person!! I love you so very much!! I know you will reach your dreams because of your determination!!! I am proud to know you!!!

    Love ya bunches——“Honey”

  2. Rena says:

    Congratulations Toni and great article! However, I was disappointed to see that your favorite food was not butter beans straight out of the boiler with a BIG spoon!

  3. Monica Weaver says:

    You are such a great person and a beautiful girl. Don’t you ever change!! Wishing you only the best in life!!
    We love you Toni!!!!

    Monica & Jaden

  4. ashlee says:

    Toni, you are a beautiful woman on the inside and out! i love you and im so very proud of you!

  5. Julie Barnes says:

    I am so proud of you, Toni! You have been a part of my life for over 10 years now and I have watched you grow into a beautiful woman, inside and out. You are an inspiration to a lot of people including Avery. She looks up to you so much! You always push her to do her best because you see the potential that she has and you don’t want her to settle for less. Congratulations on winning Miss Drew County. You deserve it!

    Love ya!
    Julie and Avery Barnes

  6. BRENDA REED says:

    Toni,
    On behalf of the Drew County Fair, we are very pleased to have you representing Drew County in the Arkansas State Fair this year. Congratulations, be yourself and go have fun

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